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Man's Search for Meaning
Viktor Frankl
Meaning, suffering and responsibility — a serious counterweight to modern self-help.
生活与意义
On Writing Well
William Zinsser
Clear nonfiction: simplicity, clutter, voice, structure and revision. The best starting point for this site.
写作与叙事
A Philosophy of Software Design
John Ousterhout
Complexity, deep modules, design judgment — agents write lines fast; you still judge whether they created complexity.
编程与软件设计
Computer Networks: A Systems Approach
Larry Peterson, Bruce Davie
Networking from first principles — how the internet actually works, end to end. Free to read online.
编程与软件设计

Don't Believe Everything You Feel
Robert L. Leahy
A CBT workbook: thoughts aren't facts — spotting and reframing automatic thinking patterns.
心理与认知
Games People Play
Eric Berne
Transactional analysis and the recurring interpersonal "games" people unconsciously enact.
行为与人际关系
The Let Them Theory
Mel Robbins
Let people do what they do and focus on your own response — a simple tool for letting go of control.
行为与人际关系
How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big
Scott Adams
Systems instead of goals, skill stacking and increasing your exposure to luck.
生活与意义
Stolen Focus
Johann Hari
Why sustained attention is getting harder — technology, sleep, stress and incentives.
生活与意义
12 Rules for Life
Jordan B. Peterson
An antidote to chaos: twelve practical rules mixing clinical psychology, myth and personal responsibility.
生活与意义
Atomic Habits
James Clear
Tiny changes compound — the habit-building handbook: cues, environment, identity.
生活与意义
The Defining Decade
Meg Jay
Why your twenties matter — decisions about work, love and identity compound early.
生活与意义
The Count of Monte Cristo
Alexandre Dumas
Dumas' revenge epic — betrayal, patience and reinvention. Long, and worth it.
小说

Behave
Robert Sapolsky
The deepest answer to "why does a person actually do this?" — behavior traced from one second back to evolution and culture.
心理与认知
Mindsight
Daniel J. Siegel
Noticing the script that is currently "living you" instead of automatically acting it out.
心理与认知
Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)
Carol Tavris, Elliot Aronson
Cognitive dissonance and self-justification — what people do after a bad decision to protect their self-image.
心理与认知
Influence
Robert Cialdini
Reciprocity, social proof, authority, scarcity — how environments change behavior without coercion.
心理与认知
The Righteous Mind
Jonathan Haidt
Why intelligent people sincerely believe completely different things — moral intuition precedes rational explanation.
心理与认知
The Elephant in the Brain
Kevin Simler, Robin Hanson
Hidden motives behind what people say motivates them: status, signalling, social competition.
心理与认知